{"id":3675,"date":"2026-02-03T20:05:25","date_gmt":"2026-02-03T20:05:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/silvaten.no\/what-does-it-mean-to-have-a-strong-desire-to-work-but-still-not-get-a-job\/"},"modified":"2026-04-19T13:39:39","modified_gmt":"2026-04-19T13:39:39","slug":"what-does-it-mean-to-have-a-strong-desire-to-work-but-still-not-get-a-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/silvaten.no\/en\/what-does-it-mean-to-have-a-strong-desire-to-work-but-still-not-get-a-job\/","title":{"rendered":"When love becomes &#8220;too much&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3675\" class=\"elementor elementor-3675 elementor-3667\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4fc229f e-flex e-con-boxed wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no wpr-column-slider-no wpr-equal-height-no e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"4fc229f\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-291d791 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"291d791\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">When love becomes \"too much\"<\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-15ee0a2 e-flex e-con-boxed wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no wpr-column-slider-no wpr-equal-height-no e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"15ee0a2\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-135004f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"135004f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div dir=\"auto\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p>When love becomes &#8220;too much&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When you let someone get really close, they see your most vulnerable places.<br>Your silence. Your longing. Your sacred memories.  <\/p>\n<p>And if in that moment you hear:<br><span style=\"font-size: 1rem; text-decoration-line: initial;\">\u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; text-decoration-line: initial;\">Please, don&#8217;t talk about your mom anymore<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 1rem; text-decoration-line: initial;\">\u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; text-decoration-line: initial;\">,<\/span><\/p><p>the pain becomes very clear.<\/p>\n<p>Not because of the words themselves.<br>But because where you expected understanding, safety, and closeness, distance arises.<\/p>\n<p>I rarely shared that longing.<br>It wasn&#8217;t a complaint. It wasn&#8217;t a burden.<br>It was love. A part of my heart. A connection that never ends.   <\/p>\n<p>When love becomes uncomfortable, you realize how much space there actually is for your feelings.<br>And you realize that not everyone is able to stand by deeper emotions.<\/p>\n<p>I let someone close. I trusted.<br>But instead of resonance, I met a boundary. <\/p>\n<p>I respect boundaries. We all have the right to protect ourselves.<br>But in that moment, I felt how important it is for me to be with those who are able to listen\u2014even when the topic is painful. <\/p>\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t anger.<br>It was a realization.<\/p>\n<p>That some people can be gentle on the surface,<br>but true closeness begins where you no longer need to hide your heart.<\/p>\n<p>I choose people I can be real with.<br>Without masks. Without filters.<br>Those who can listen.<br>Those who aren&#8217;t afraid of either their own or others&#8217; feelings. <\/p>\n<p>For me, closeness means the ability to stay.<br>To stay with a memory.<br>With the longing.<br>With the love that never fades.<\/p>\n<p>And if for some it&#8217;s <span style=\"font-size: 1rem; text-decoration-line: initial;\">\u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; text-decoration-line: initial;\">too much<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 1rem; text-decoration-line: initial;\">\u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; text-decoration-line: initial;\">,<br><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; text-decoration-line: initial;\">maybe I simply need depth.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When love becomes &#8220;too much&#8221; When love becomes &#8220;too much&#8221; When you let someone get really close, they see your most vulnerable places.Your silence. 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